Podcast

How to See What's Holding You Back

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Coaching for Leaders

Blindspotting author, Martin Dubin, discusses identity shifts on the Coaching for Leaders podcast.

Key Points
  • Many leaders don’t recognize the need for change and succumb to an identity blindspot.
  • You don’t have to change your identity, but there’s a mismatch between role and identity, that’s a major problem.
  • Shifting your identity is not changing who you are. Identities help us to sort through people and situations so we know who we are in relation to them.
  • An identity that many have worked before can get in the way today. Common ones are: imposter, independent thinker, rule follower, unworthy, entitled, rebel, and peacemaker.
  • Look back through your calendar over the past three months and determine how well your activities match up with the identity your role demands.
  • Embody the new identity you are aiming to shift to, even if you’re not yet feeling it.